دانلود کتاب Becoming Better Grownups – تبدیل شدن به بزرگسالان بهتر

توضیحات

A New York Times-bestselling author looks for the meaning of a good life by seeking advice from the very young and the very old.

When his first book tour ended, Brad Montague missed hearing other people’s stories so much that he launched what he dubbed a Listening Tour. First visiting elementary schools and later also nursing homes and retirement communities, he hoped to glean new wisdom as to how he might become a better grownup. Now, in this playful and buoyant book, he shares those insights with rest of us –timeless, often surprising lessons that bypass the head we’re always stuck in, and go straight to the heart we sometimes forget.

Each of the book’s three sections begins with the illustrated story of ‘The Incredible Floating Girl.’ Brad weaves this story together with lessons of success, fear, regret, gratitude, love, happiness, and dreams to reveal the true reason we are here: to fly, and to help others fly.

Beautifully designed and featuring Montague’s own whimsical 4-color illustrations that appeal to the kid in all of us, Becoming Better Grownups shares the purpose and meaning we can all discover merely by listening, and reveals that–in a world that seems increasingly childish–the secret to joy is in fact to become more childlike.

Review

‘A fantastic, fanciful guide to becoming not only a happier adult but one who gives back and helps the next generation.’Library Journal, starred review

Excerpt. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved.

I dont know the exact moment they allowed me to begin sitting at the grownups table. I do know I have yet to feel comfortable at it.

Growing up! It seemed like a good idea. Actually, it seemed like a great idea. Grownups have keys to cars, they can eat ice cream anytime they want, and they have all the answers. All of them.

Answers were something I wanted, and something Im still wanting.

It all seemed so simple. Growing up would just happen to me. I had it all figured out: One day I would wake up and enter the kingdom of adulthood. Magically, this transition would be accompanied with facial hair, knowledge of tax laws, and a keen ability to find great deals, parking spaces, and difficult answers to crossword puzzles. Basically, I would know everything. Absolutely everything.

Cue high school graduation. Nothing. I walk the stage a bit wiser, I think. I touch my faceonly minimal beard growth. Definitely no knowledge of tax laws. I come to the conclusion that my adulthood superpowers just havent quite kicked in yet. Cuecollege graduation: same. Marriage? Lovely, but now there are two of us who dont have it all figured out. Cue childrenand this is when, for me, panic really begins to set in. Now there are other little humans being brought into this mess and no answers. None.

I need those magic grownup powers. Maybe you do, too?

Before we go any further, its only proper that I let you know something: I am no expert. There, I said it. In fact, when it comes to most things, Im what some might call gloriously inept. To ease my conscience Ive pulled together a short, and by no means comprehensive, list of things Im not great at (see facing page).

Now that thats out of the way, I can let you know that Im at least trying to be great at one thing: being a grownup. Despite my best efforts, I am what some would refer to as a grownup. I stillcant help strongly relating to Antoine de Saint-Exuprys words in The Little Prince, though. He says, I have lived a great deal among grown-ups. I have seen them intimately, close at hand. And that hasnt much improved my opinion of them. True words, right? There are many who give being a grownup a really bad look. Youre already thinking of names. Be nice.

For me, it was shortly after discovering I would be a father that I dubbed my life Operation Be a Better Grownup. It was a wake-up call. This meant stepping up and becoming the dad Id always promised myself Id be. This meant becoming fully alive so that I could truly make this tiny new life proud. This meant coming to terms with the fact that I had no idea what to do next.

I feverishly set out to learn from anyone and everyone what it might mean to be a better adult human person. I began listening more, something I wasnt necessarily great at. I spent time with young people and old people. I confronted what it might mean to be a bad grownup. I questioned the virtues of maybe being just a boring grownup. Best of all, though, I began to dream about what it might look like to be a great grownup. The kind of grownup Id always wanted to become. The kind of grownup Id forgotten I could be. The kind of grownup that the kids of the world need us to be.

Its been both refreshing and frightening to discover that most of the adults I once looked to for guidance felt as clueless as I currently do. I spent years leaning on them for advice on how to do this life thing, and the whole time they also had no clue where to put their salad fork, either. That fourth-grade teacher who transformed the way I see the world and myself in it? She was a scared, new teacher just trying to figure it all out. That mentor I go to so often for advice on how to be fulfilled in my family and career? Hes trying to make sense of his place on this planet, too. My mother, who nurtured me, inspired me, and loved me into being? She was an overjoyed and terrified young woman, and I was her first child.

Growing up, just like breaking up, can be very hard to do.

This book is the result of hundreds of conversations with thousands of people, young and old, about becoming a better grownup. It began as a project focusing only on childrens ideas about growing up, but evolved to include my discussions on adulthood with actual grownups. Those in both the morning and the twilight of their lives have a lot to teach us about what it means to grow and mature. These people dont always get the microphone, but this journey taught me just how much that needs to change. Each chapter focuses on key insights Ive learned from listening to kids andformer kids. I am indebted to the many educators in classrooms, assisted-living centers, and hospitals who opened up time in their already crowded schedules. These wise souls helped shape this book and, with no exaggeration, my life.

One thing great grownups do is tell bedtime stories. This book, however, is not a bedtime story. Bedtime stories are told out of a desire to lull a little one to sleep. Within bedtime stories we hide little pieces of goodness to help children in their waking hours. We tuck important lessons into these stories about sharing, telling the truth, and overcoming fear. But at the end of the dayand thats when these are toldbedtime stories are really meant to reassure, calm, and get the young listeners to just go to sleep already.

I share this story, and this book, because it is a wake-up story. It is about my attempt to become a real-life, wide-awake grownup person. It is about how listening for wisdom woke me up. I asked questions and then did this thing that was fairly new to me, in which I actually listened to the responses. What I heard made me completely reimagine my adult life.

In spite of my uneasiness at being a grownup, I keep showing up. On the day my daughter was born, I held her. Im told that each day, across the world, nearly 350,000 babies are born. That day, one of 350,000 new bundles of light in the world was handed to me. Me. There I stood, feeling a feeling that Ive come to associate with being an adult: the feeling of being both gigantic and oh so very small. This new little baby girl looked up at me.

What did she do?

She laughed.

I melted.

I recalled this moment to friends and loved ones later and they all unanimously agreedit was gas. But I knew better. That little laugh was packed with hope and possibility. In spite of all my inadequacies and all my feelings of unworthiness, she laughed. This little girl entered the world and then my arms and then she immediately laughed. Having just accomplished one of the most remarkable feats any living thing can doentering the worldshe laughed. In the face of grand beauty and mystery, she laughed. Maybe we could all do the same.

In moments big and small, she has continued to laugh, affirming my suspicions that it really was more than just gas. Theres such a joyful lightness to her that, at times, I remain fearful shell simply float away. This led to the inspiration for a story included throughout this book, The Incredible Floating Girl. Its a simple tale told in three parts, and it frames the books beginning, middle, and end. Its not a bedtime story. Its a wake-up story.

At this moment, were the grownups in the room. For just a few short heartbeats, blinks, and breaths, we get to be here. My hope is that this book inspires more moments of childlike joy for you. Holding my daughter that first day and hearing her laugh, I was overwhelmed by the exuberance. In that moment, my heart and mind were not occupied with the burden of adulthood. I was simply focused on the thrill and beauty of becoming a better grownup. Whatever your role or wherever you may find yourself, I hope this book inspires you to do the same. Secretly, also, my hope is that one day in the far-off future, should my children find themselves also scratching their heads about growing up, theyll find this book right when they need it, read these stories, and remember.

While there is much I dont know, one thing has become increasingly certain for me: Being a better grownup has a whole lot to do with being more like a child. We become fully alive when we listen to the child within us and the children around us. Our work,our ideas, our to-do lists, everything in our wakeit all changes when we view it as a child does. We become softer, kinder, and, yes, sillier. Im convinced a life lived like this can create a more helpful and hopeful world for kids and former kids everywhere.

Heres to better grownups. May we be them. May we raise them.

About the Author

Brad Montague is the creator of the web series Kid President and the author of the New York Times bestseller Kid President’s Guide to Being Awesome. As an illustrator, Montague has his work spread across the Internet daily and can regularly be seen in Joanna Gaines’s The Magnolia Journal.

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ترجمه ماشینی :

یک نویسنده پرفروش نیویورک تایمز با مشاوره گرفتن از افراد بسیار جوان و بسیار پیر به دنبال معنای زندگی خوب است. وقتی اولین تور کتابش به پایان رسید، برد مونتاگ آنقدر دلتنگ شنیدن داستان های دیگران شد تا جایی که تور شنیداری را راه اندازی کرد. او ابتدا با بازدید از مدارس ابتدایی و بعداً از خانه‌های سالمندان و جوامع بازنشستگان، امیدوار بود که خرد جدیدی در مورد اینکه چگونه می‌تواند بزرگسال بهتری شود به دست آورد. اکنون، در این کتاب بازیگوش و سرزنده، او آن بینش‌ها را با بقیه ما به اشتراک می‌گذارد — درس‌های بی‌زمان و اغلب غافلگیرکننده‌ای که از ذهنی که همیشه در آن گیر کرده‌ایم دور می‌زند و مستقیماً به قلب می‌رود که گاهی فراموش می‌کنیم. هر یک از سه بخش کتاب با داستان مصور “دختر شناور باورنکردنی” آغاز می شود. برد این داستان را با درس هایی از موفقیت، ترس، پشیمانی، قدردانی، عشق، شادی و رویاها در هم می آمیزد تا دلیل واقعی حضور ما در اینجا را آشکار کند: پرواز و کمک به دیگران برای پرواز. \ با طراحی زیبا و دارای تصاویر عجیب و غریب 4 رنگ خود مونتاگ که برای همه ما جذابیت دارد، Becoming Better Grownup اهداف و معنایی را که همه ما می توانیم صرفاً با گوش دادن به آنها کشف کنیم، به اشتراک می گذارد و آن را آشکار می کند – در دنیایی که به نظر می رسد به طور فزاینده ای به نظر می رسد. کودکانه – راز شادی در واقع کودکانه تر شدن است. نقد ‘راهنمای فوق‌العاده و خیال‌انگیزی برای تبدیل شدن به یک بزرگسال شادتر، بلکه فردی که کمک می‌کند و به نسل بعدی کمک می‌کند. با اجازه تجدید چاپ شد. تمامی حقوق محفوظ است. لحظه دقیقی که به من اجازه دادند سر میز بزرگسالان بنشینم را نمی دانم. من می دانم که هنوز در آن احساس راحتی نکرده ام. \ بزرگ شدن! به نظر ایده خوبی بود. در واقع، ایده خوبی به نظر می رسید. بزرگ‌ترها کلید ماشین‌ها را دارند، می‌توانند هر زمان که بخواهند بستنی بخورند و همه پاسخ‌ها را دارند. همه آنها. پاسخ ها چیزی بود که من می خواستم، و چیزی که هنوز هم می خواهم. \ همه چیز خیلی ساده به نظر می رسید. بزرگ شدن برای من اتفاق می افتد. همه چیز را فهمیده بودم: یک روز از خواب بیدار می شدم و وارد پادشاهی بزرگسالی می شدم. به طور جادویی، این انتقال با موهای صورت، آگاهی از قوانین مالیاتی، و توانایی شدید برای یافتن معاملات عالی، جای پارک و پاسخ های دشوار به جدول کلمات متقاطع همراه خواهد بود. اصولاً من همه چیز را می دانستم. کاملاً همه چیز. کیو فارغ التحصیلی دبیرستان. هیچ چی. فکر می کنم کمی عاقلانه تر روی صحنه می روم. من فقط صورتم را لمس می کنم که رشد ریش کم است. قطعاً از قوانین مالیاتی اطلاعی ندارم. من به این نتیجه می رسم که ابرقدرت های دوران بزرگسالی من هنوز کاملاً وارد نشده اند. فارغ التحصیلی کوکالج: همان. ازدواج؟ دوست داشتنی است، اما اکنون دو نفر هستیم که همه چیز را درک نکرده ایم. بچه‌ها را راهنمایی کنید و این زمانی است که، برای من، وحشت واقعاً شروع می‌شود. اکنون انسان‌های کوچک دیگری هستند که وارد این آشفتگی می‌شوند و هیچ پاسخی ندارند. هیچ یک. من به آن قدرت های جادویی بزرگسالان نیاز دارم. شاید شما هم همینطور؟ قبل از اینکه بیشتر برویم، تنها چیزی است که به شما اطلاع می دهم: من متخصص نیستم. اونجا گفتم در واقع، وقتی نوبت به بیشتر چیزها می‌رسد، من چیزی هستم که برخی ممکن است آن را به طرز باشکوهی بی‌تفاوت بخوانند. برای آسودگی وجدانم، فهرست کوتاه و به هیچ وجه جامعی از چیزهایی که در آنها عالی نیستم را گردآوری کردم (به صفحه روبرو مراجعه کنید). \ حالا که دیگر راه نیست، می‌توانم به شما بگویم که حداقل سعی می‌کنم در یک چیز عالی باشم: بزرگسال بودن. علیرغم تمام تلاش‌هایم، من چیزی هستم که برخی از آن

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